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Thursday, April 15, 2010

Cheng Beng 2010

When I was a young girl in my hometown, I have never celebrated Cheng Beng at all.  My father's family was in China and my mother's parents were Catholics from Malacca. But ever since I got married, I have gone for Cheng Beng without fail for more than 20 years.....from the graves at Old Airport Road to ultra modern Nirvana Park at Semenyih.

we went early to beat the jam but auntie was already there
nice sunrise view
red sky in the morning...sailor's warning
temple at the top of the hill
so crowded already
they have been going for Cheng Beng since they were babies
so easy now, no need to step over rocks and tombstones of others

so easy to locate too

our usual party
all came in one car

I saw this in other people's grave, the food was mouldy
Uncle Yam taking photos!
Ah Koo, Ah Soh unpacking the stuff
we do not know what food to put on whose grave, so we wait

vegetarian for Grandmother


fish, chicken and siu yoke for Grandfather
Joss sticks
joss paper


my son

my husband

my sister-in-law, my nephew
my relatives
hell money









 




5 million hell bank note

my old Unser...10 years of Cheng Beng
time to go back
back to my trusty old Unser, it houses everybody
sun is up...till next Cheng Beng.

5 comments:

Yen Fong said...

Ehek..Pn Tay, you took the picture of tombstone...That's extreme!(to me) If my mum she would scold me for taking such pictures.

MK Loo said...

it's okay what, I have taken close up of all my relatives' tombs, to keep in my album, I see nothing wrong.

Yen Fong said...

Cos some ppl kinda pantang...Especially the older generations. :)

MK Loo said...

ok, will bear that in mind, but the newspaper also take pictures of cemeteries and publish them in the papers somemore! (when they do Qing Ming stories)

Andre said...

It's a good tradition to remember our loved ones who have passed away. A lot of Chinese people don't want to practice this tradition anymore. Althogh it's only once a year. My family still practice Qing Ming on the beach as my relatives' ashes have been scattered at the sea. We say a prayer on the beach and scatter some flower petals at the sea.